So- My boy friend and I have been having sex for the past 4 in a half years- I didn't see anything wrong with how we do the deed but as we got older through the years I started to notice that I kind of leave him disappointed- You see,
I only had two real serious boyfriends in my whole entire life, when I was with my ex six years ago - He was the only one I lost my virginity to so I don't have that much experience. I was 16 at the time. The boy friend I am with now is what I have trouble with pleasing.
I'm 21 now and feel like I'm still a kid trying to have sex-
The problem is, is that when ever we have sex, I cum first always before he does and it kills me to let him continue because it hurts after I cum. So when he's still in the needy mood I don't want to let him continue on and get his haha. I know it's wrong because I don't know how to go on and stay in the mood having good sex with him with out cumming- It ruins it with him when I do cum first because it kills the mood. It's been that way seance we been with each other 4 years ago- I'm surprised he's still with me haha. He understands and loves me enough to stay with me though so I want to give him good sex back- I mean I do some things to him to make him cum on a regular basis but I want it to be together and we both hit the climax you know what I mean? All I know is that I need advice on how to make the sex work for the both of us and to keep it going good all night with no disappointment- So how do I go about that?
I only had two real serious boyfriends in my whole entire life, when I was with my ex six years ago - He was the only one I lost my virginity to so I don't have that much experience. I was 16 at the time. The boy friend I am with now is what I have trouble with pleasing.
I'm 21 now and feel like I'm still a kid trying to have sex-
The problem is, is that when ever we have sex, I cum first always before he does and it kills me to let him continue because it hurts after I cum. So when he's still in the needy mood I don't want to let him continue on and get his haha. I know it's wrong because I don't know how to go on and stay in the mood having good sex with him with out cumming- It ruins it with him when I do cum first because it kills the mood. It's been that way seance we been with each other 4 years ago- I'm surprised he's still with me haha. He understands and loves me enough to stay with me though so I want to give him good sex back- I mean I do some things to him to make him cum on a regular basis but I want it to be together and we both hit the climax you know what I mean? All I know is that I need advice on how to make the sex work for the both of us and to keep it going good all night with no disappointment- So how do I go about that?