Okay so i am with my boyfriend, I know 100% this child is his as ive never slept with anyone else! Also he knows this child is his so there is no problems with the two of us.
BUT.. his sister has never met me, she had a dna test done as she didn't know who the father of her child was.. So i think its rather hypercritical that she's telling my bf to get me to do one! Although at the same time i do think its understandable as it is her little brother.
Thing is me and my partner both decided that we trust one another, and we both know this child is his. As its what she wants, i think its only fair if she pays for one! id rather money go towards our child rather than a DNA test.
I found sites but tbh, they dont sound either proffesional or reliable! i want one thats going to give the correct answer, not a false one.
I just think its easier to prevent arguements.. as it is starting to cause a few tiffs amongst the family, but i decided that she should pay for one seeing as she wants one whereas me and the father of my child dont feel the need to do this. I dont mind one being done at all either way, it wont affect anything!
QUESTIONS:
Do you think i am being out of order for stating she needs to cough up the money?
How reliable are cheap dna tests? do you think i should have a more expensive one done?
BUT.. his sister has never met me, she had a dna test done as she didn't know who the father of her child was.. So i think its rather hypercritical that she's telling my bf to get me to do one! Although at the same time i do think its understandable as it is her little brother.
Thing is me and my partner both decided that we trust one another, and we both know this child is his. As its what she wants, i think its only fair if she pays for one! id rather money go towards our child rather than a DNA test.
I found sites but tbh, they dont sound either proffesional or reliable! i want one thats going to give the correct answer, not a false one.
I just think its easier to prevent arguements.. as it is starting to cause a few tiffs amongst the family, but i decided that she should pay for one seeing as she wants one whereas me and the father of my child dont feel the need to do this. I dont mind one being done at all either way, it wont affect anything!
QUESTIONS:
Do you think i am being out of order for stating she needs to cough up the money?
How reliable are cheap dna tests? do you think i should have a more expensive one done?