We were engaged and he cheated and we broken when I was 16 weeks pregnant. Our daughter is now 4 weeks old, she was born at 34 weeks. We got back together one week after he birth but are taking this slowly because I'm not completely sure I trust him, I want to build up the trust before I let him back into my heart. He says he feels like he's dying inside because I've only just let him touch me again - like hold my hand - but I won't let him kiss me, tell me he loves me or have sex with him. It's not the being able to tell me he loves me that is hurting him the most. During the whole split he was completely heart broken, he tried everything he could think of to make it up to me. I won't even leave him alone with our daughter. I feel like I'm being mean to him because I won't let him have any intimate moments with me.
I trust him that he won't cheat again I just can't trust him not to break my heart again. He never told me he cheated, I found out. One of the women had turned on my video camera which was on the nightstand, I found out by transferring the data onto my computer as the camera wasn't full when I had used it last. I know she wasn't the only one, he admitted to sleeping with three other women after I confronted him.
He has been tested. First thing he did when I found out was get tested.
I trust him that he won't cheat again I just can't trust him not to break my heart again. He never told me he cheated, I found out. One of the women had turned on my video camera which was on the nightstand, I found out by transferring the data onto my computer as the camera wasn't full when I had used it last. I know she wasn't the only one, he admitted to sleeping with three other women after I confronted him.
He has been tested. First thing he did when I found out was get tested.