Am I being horrible for thinking my boyfriend kills my sex drive?

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angel

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He is always tired and leaves me to make all the effort. Sometimes he literally falls asleep half way through things or says "shall we just watch the film its getting late". I understand he has a busy lifestyle but he has the energy to play footy every night so why can't he make the effort with me? I have gone off sex completely because I always just do it for him and then he falls to sleep. What on earth can I do? he never used to be like this :(
 
Best thing is to talk about it. No man want to hear this so he may be a little upset. But, you are a human being and have emotional and physical needs.....Would he rather you go somewhere else???
 
Just leave sex for something..make him hungry for sex and when he wants sex, refrain from it..tell him how you felt before, just like what he will be feeling now..
 
Explain to him that you really need it, tell him if he needs to, he can take a 5 hour energy shot to stay awake.
 
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