Am I attracted to men or masculinity?

user2011

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Ive noticed that im only attracted to guys that are very masculine so Im wondering if this might just be a phase afterall. I consider myself bi but recently ive been starting to question whether being with a guy is what I really want (p.s. this has nothing to do with society's influence, ive come to terms with my sexuality). Do you think that I like men because I am somewhat passive? Because I think women are absolutely beautiful but I find it a little difficult to get turned on by them. Could it be that I feel a sexual disconnect with women because they are expected to be passive and I am passive? Im confused please help!
In other words am I only gay because I like masculinity! or am I NOT straight because women are passive! because I am attracted to women but not really sexually. However, I used to be attracted to women sexually when I was younger, It just kinda faded when I was in middle school//
P.S. I KNOW IM GAY lol thats not what im asking
 
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