Unbelievable
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virgin!? (Everyone's 20+) Then he assumed I was saving myself for marriage. We've agreed from the very start to be 'just' friends, and we've been just that for over 6 months, or so I thought. He confided in me and told me some sensitive life stories, and he contacted me almost daily, even when him or I were dating other people, so he wasn't just looking to get laid. We always had fun hanging out, maybe there was some attraction that we never admitted to, but both of us made it clear that we weren't going to go there and we never did. He was the one to initially suggest that we just be friends. Then one day he learned that I was a virgin, and ever since, I haven't heard from him. I tried contacting him and his replies were so different, they were short, cold, one-worded, took forever, seemed uninterested, and then he'd stop replying all of a sudden.
How does it make sense that we could have had a tight bond, a good friendship, and then just like that, he drops me because he knew that him and I will probably never hook up? Which wouldn't have happened anyways even if I have had sex already since we WERE JUST FRIENDS! Insight anyone?
He's only been in very longterm relationships. Only dates people he'd potentially marry one day. And he has plenty of female and male friends at all levels of attractiveness.
How does it make sense that we could have had a tight bond, a good friendship, and then just like that, he drops me because he knew that him and I will probably never hook up? Which wouldn't have happened anyways even if I have had sex already since we WERE JUST FRIENDS! Insight anyone?
He's only been in very longterm relationships. Only dates people he'd potentially marry one day. And he has plenty of female and male friends at all levels of attractiveness.