All my son's photos are missing!!?

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I would probably start freaking out too but you must have put them some place else and just not thinking of where. Try calming down a little and stop looking for them and do something else. Sometimes this helps to clear your head and let you figure out where you actually put the pictures. Good luck, I hope you find them. Unless your boyfriend is hiding them from you for some reason, I'm sure you'll find them.
 
I had been keeping all of my son's photos in a big manila envelope in our upstairs closet since his birth almost 4 months ago. We obviously have pictures on the wall and in albums too, but all the cds with images, other pics, and the duplicates were all in the envelope. This evening after I put my son to bed I went to go get it to work on his scrapbook and the envelope is there, but all the pictures from inside are gone. I tore our whole apartment apart and they're not here. Am I right to be freaking out about this? My boyfriend said I'm overreacting, but I'm pretty upset about it and I don't understand what could have happened to them!! What would you do in a situation like this?
Not too many people have been over..I can't think of anyone that would have taken them...it's just really weird that the envelope is still there. Usually whenever I do anything with them I take the whole envelope rather than a ton of loose photos...I hope I find them too!
 
Have you had any visitors? Maybe they did something with it, or when was the last time you got it? what did you do with it?

Are you sure they didn't fall from the envalope? Maybe to the floor or maybe to somewhere else, like got stuck in the a pocket or something when they fell?

P.S thanks for the great idea of the scrap book picture.
 
I would be upset too sweetie, it's precious memories and pictures that you will never get back if they get lost or destroyed, that's why. I guess men don't see things the same way we do, we love them to bits, most of them and it weren't for them, our babies wouldn't be here but honestly they could work on their sensitivity a bit I think! I do hope you find the originals though sweetie. All the very best.
 
I would probably freak too. I also scrapbook. That really sucks. Calm down and try looking again. Sometimes when you are upset you can't really see/think clearly. When you calm down you might focus better.
 
That's horrible... I wouldn't even know what that would feel like. Anyone that you didn't really know that much been over lately? This might be a little much... but how long have you known your boyfriend? Don't read into it, but you obviously didn't move them, so someone did. Unless you misplaced them? In all of the excitement, you may have overlooked them. No one is coming clean about it... So that is a bit strange if you didn't misplace them. I really hope you find them.
 
Just a thought, but if your boyfriend is telling you to calm down and that you are overreacting (which you're not) maybe he took them, I had my Grandmother's ring disappear once and was ready to call the cops and have them fingerprint my whole apartment, my ex got me to settle down and convinced me that I must have put it away somewhere else and it turned out he had taken it and had a stone replaced and it cleaned as a gift. Maybe your boyfriend is doing something with the pics.
 
Wow, I have no idea what I would do....actually I'd be flipping out right now!!

Is it possible someone was in the room that had these pictures and could taken them? Maybe it was a family member who wanted to make you a nice gift?

I dunno, I hope you find them!! and now you're making me worried about my photos I should make some more back ups rather then just what's on my memory cards!!
 
sit down with a hot cup of tea.
take deep breaths.

now try to remember the last time you saw the photos, where you were and what you were doing. remember who else knows where the photos are kept. think if there is anyone sort of dodgey who would want to steal the photos.
Next... grab your mobile phone and send out a text to everyone who has been in your apartment recently asking them if they recall seeing you put the photos anywhere...

since your darling son is only 4mths you are in the same hormonal state as i am in (my son is the same age) and therefore you're likely to forget things (like i am) due to the hormonal imbalances right now (it should go back to normal soon!! lol) SOMEONE should know or remember when you last had the photos and where you put them. or know if anyone else has borrowed them/put them in the wrong place.
 
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