Although they did not live together in 2009 at all he wants to file taxes together. He did not work of course and she did. They did own a house together during that time, can she file separately? Also, we do not want to drop the child off at his house, is it okay to find a neutral drop off and pick up place and does my daughter have to be the one to drop off and pick up, she works during the times during the week he is to have her, and there was DV involved and she had rather not be the one to drop off etc.