After I orgasm I lose my sex drive?

[Flegina]

I can have a really orgasm when i finger myself and during sex but as soon as i have one i lose all my sex drive and hornyness and don't want to carry on having sex and it really p!sses of my boyfriend. How can i change this because it is really ruining my sex life and my boyfriend is getting sick of me. I have tried carrying on but my boyfriend says he can tell i don't want to carry on even when i try my best to act normal.

 

[Jz Mum]

Its kind of the way of it - the point of sex is to come. How would your bf feel if he came then you bounced back on demanding another go!!!
what you need is maybe to relax, try different ways of delaying your O.
more relaxed you may find yourself coming more than once, or even being able to go again soon after.
having your boyfriend have a go after sex is not the best way to relax. I'm narcoleptic and fall asleep with strong emotions but my husband knows its not personal - even a compliment in a way. you need to find a boyfriend who realises there's a bit more to you than the "15 minutes athe end of the day"