I am still living with my ex boyfriend. He sill says he loves me and will not accept that the feelings that I had for him have gone away.
I have been sleeping in the 2nd bedroom for over 6 months now, and I try my hardest not to lead him on. We have been living together for over 6 years now and it is hard not to speak "home" talk together.
I admit I still have hope. Hope that the relationship will change and that he will realize that to make a life, he needs to take responsibilities. I also have hope that my feelings will change, they were there once, could they be again? How can I make it better? Can it be made better?
The financial side is that we have gotten a house together before feelings changed. (it is only in his name though) and my credit is horrible. I'm in the mind frame of fixing my credit then moving on......
Excuse or good idea?
The situation is hard emotionally and my feelings change minute to minute ("leave...stay...leave")
I just need some advice.
I have been sleeping in the 2nd bedroom for over 6 months now, and I try my hardest not to lead him on. We have been living together for over 6 years now and it is hard not to speak "home" talk together.
I admit I still have hope. Hope that the relationship will change and that he will realize that to make a life, he needs to take responsibilities. I also have hope that my feelings will change, they were there once, could they be again? How can I make it better? Can it be made better?
The financial side is that we have gotten a house together before feelings changed. (it is only in his name though) and my credit is horrible. I'm in the mind frame of fixing my credit then moving on......
Excuse or good idea?
The situation is hard emotionally and my feelings change minute to minute ("leave...stay...leave")
I just need some advice.