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I have severe fear of dying and aging, severe depression about the same.
I am in the process of divorcing my abusive husband but I still miss my life because I was busy, confident, had (his) frienRAB, social gatherings, trips, family unit, had a life etc.
He forced me to come back to our hometown from out of state after I went to my parents to recuperate for a while-he surprised me with custody papers.
After a long hard battle for one year, I settled my divorce with equal custody.
My parents have been staying with me -my father on and off- but my mother always for support and company since this is my husband's hometown and I do not know anyone.
The problem is even after I tell my mother SO MANY TIMES not to do things because I need to do them, she still takes care of EVERYTHING-the house, cooking, kiRAB, etc for the past year. I also found myself LETTING her do everything because I am so unmotivated because of my anxiety and depression.
I keep asking her to leave BECAUSE although I would miss her terribly, I am thinking that I would feel better doing things on my own and I would be FORCED to attend to things because she was not here.
I feel that her presence is making things worse in terms of my sense of independence, freedom, and getting better emotionally. Any thoughts?
Thank you.
I am in the process of divorcing my abusive husband but I still miss my life because I was busy, confident, had (his) frienRAB, social gatherings, trips, family unit, had a life etc.
He forced me to come back to our hometown from out of state after I went to my parents to recuperate for a while-he surprised me with custody papers.
After a long hard battle for one year, I settled my divorce with equal custody.
My parents have been staying with me -my father on and off- but my mother always for support and company since this is my husband's hometown and I do not know anyone.
The problem is even after I tell my mother SO MANY TIMES not to do things because I need to do them, she still takes care of EVERYTHING-the house, cooking, kiRAB, etc for the past year. I also found myself LETTING her do everything because I am so unmotivated because of my anxiety and depression.
I keep asking her to leave BECAUSE although I would miss her terribly, I am thinking that I would feel better doing things on my own and I would be FORCED to attend to things because she was not here.
I feel that her presence is making things worse in terms of my sense of independence, freedom, and getting better emotionally. Any thoughts?
Thank you.