losing_it.slowly
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Ok, my husband and I are 26 known each other dated on/off since we were 16.....We have a 9 yr old, 2 yr old and I am 7 months pregnant. October of 2009, I found out my husband was talking to a woman in another state told her he loved her would move in with her sent her explicit pictures etc. I forgave him and life moved forward or so I thought!!! So he's only been in the Army just over a year, so I don't think there's any benefits for me there. But tonight, after being hospitalized for 5 hours, as I have a bad heart, and pregnancy is only worsening my condition, I left hospital came home laid down, got up for a drink and caught him yet again talking to another woman, doing dirty chat live web cam naked. I'm pissed! I feel divorce may be my only option at this point, but now I face another dilemma, he is being deployed his first deployment in 30 days, and if I divorce now, then will my pregnancy not be covered? What should I do, I'm genuinely lost, I don't understand, I stand by his side, hold his hand bring us through the tough times and yet he just keeps doing it, yes we have 3 kids, but kind of life is that for them really?