so i am waiting on a bid from 2 fraternities. i am still not completely sure of which one i want to do. Say i get a bid from one, and they ask me to accept on the spot or defer, but i do not know if the other one will give me a bid yet. What should i do? be cautious and accept ,,or defer and leave myself open to be potentially turned down by both.
also...
wud i be able to accept and then back out if i do get a bid from the second as well and want to do that one?
also...
wud i be able to accept and then back out if i do get a bid from the second as well and want to do that one?