Wayne Bradford
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My wife and I seperated 8 months ago. She told me she hated her life, she did not know who she was. She said she was not happy about US. I asked her if she wanted to see a conselor. She said do I have to answere right now? After giving it some thought, I left for a little while. My "footprints" was not even dry yet and she met someone new and started a relationship with him. Now keep in mind, WE ARE STILL MARRIED. I have not met NO ONE, but she started cheating. Later on I found out, (SHE TOLD ME) she went to her ex-boyfriends house, when she told me she was working overtime. She said, "We did not sleep togather. I took him to the bank and we had breakfast"........RED FLAG!!!!!!, I started thinking, MMMMMM, maybe all that overtime she was suppose to be working, she wasn't, but "fooling around". I thought we was going to work things out, but this wasw in January 2011. Then She met met "HIM". Now she wants a divorce and my youngest son told me, " I HATE YOU". What should I do now????? I do not hate her, but I do hate the situation. Maybe I should just "cut her loose" and "move-on". But, the Bible says it would be a sin. "What God has joined togather, let NO MAN put asunder", but it does not tell me what to do or I should really feel. I NEED HELP.