A weird, very personal sex question for experienced women?

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I'm in my mid-twenties and am currently with my first partner who was able to give me a penetrative orgrasm. It makes me feel kind of like a loser in bed, really. Anyway, we are just friends-with-benefits and I have to accept the fact that he'll probably move on soon.

a) Do you think that I will start having them with other partners from now on?
b) How can I figure out what it is about him (its not a physical thing, because I've done everything we're doing before) so I can seek it in a boyfriend type?
 
Trial and Error!!

You will be with guys that do not... full satisfy you, but don't give up. There are millions of guys out there. Try new things with him and you'll get better too, then maybe you won't feel like the underdog in bed. Have fun :)
 
a) now that you know what works for you, I should be able to coach future partners

b) it may be the same positions, but there's probably a different motion. Also, it may be more intense and feel "dirty" and "wrong" because you aren't actually a couple (not that I think there's anything wrong with it) -- that might be a turn on for you.
You should probably not seek out someone who reminds you of him, that'd be a little weird.

It's more about you knowing how it feels, how it's supposed to feel, and what makes you orgasm.

Have fun!
 
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