A Sex Question For Ladies?

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Im a virgin and im wondering how bad sex will hurt. Cuz i know it will hurt. But is there anything I can do to make it not hurt as bad? Also what can i compare the pain to? Like does it hurt as bad as say, getting your ears pierced? Thanks so much ((in advance)) for the help.
 
hunni when your ready the pain shouldn't worry you like it seems to be right now you should want to share the experience with a person you love and if you do love them they will wait for you and you can talk to them during your experience and make you feel safe and secure and this will help you relax and the pain wont hurt honestly as long as yoru man is gentle and slow to begin with . . . remember it only hurts once !

its hard to describe . . . sharp and prickly just relax breathe and focus on the moment your sharing with your man and it will be so much more enjoyable if you worry and tense it will be worse

good luck
 
Using extra lubrication will help. Try astroglide or ky jelly. Rub it on his penis before he enters you and have him go slow to give your vagina time to stretch and open up. It will feel good.
 
It hurts like the way getting braces tightened or like when your muscles are sore from working out. It's kind of nice but painful at the same time. It's not unbearable. If you have lots of heavy petting beforehand, it could not hurt at all.
 
The level of pain varies...if you are with a nice guy, he will make sure he's not hurting you much...It will hurt more if your hymen is still intact and more than likely it isn't if you have ridden a horse or used tampons or exercised excessively...It hurts worse than getting your ears pierced because that pain is all at once and first time sex can last 3 minutes lol
 
I did not experience any actual pain my first time. People talk about it hurting so much and you get all worked up and anxious. I felt some discomfort but no actual pain. Also, let the man you are doing it with that you are in fact a virgin and remind him to take it easy. If you are careful and not reckless it shouldn't be too bad =) It, I wouldn't think for anyone, is comparable to getting your ears pierced. It would be more of a discomfort pain.
 
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