i was recently making out with a girl and things were getting pretty hot and heavy, and i was taking the initiative on her, like i kissed her whole body and even went for the goods, but after a while we just went to sleep since we were both drunk. i'm ok that we didn't have sex since no condom but anyways i had wished she would have touched mine at least, but i'm not the type of guy who would just tell her to because i would feel like i was forcing her too or something.
but since this unfulfilled scenario has happened to me before, i was wondering that maybe i'm missing out by not taking the lead. is it ok just to take it out or even grab a girls hand and direct it there or even just to ask her if she would? girls when you're making out with a guy do you take the inititiave if you wanted to play with the guys penis or do you wait for the cue from the guy? and would you be offended if he just took it out or even asked you to? i mean i've always thought yes, and have held back wanting to, but i've been thinking lately it's prob not that big of a deal to do so what are your opinions?
but since this unfulfilled scenario has happened to me before, i was wondering that maybe i'm missing out by not taking the lead. is it ok just to take it out or even grab a girls hand and direct it there or even just to ask her if she would? girls when you're making out with a guy do you take the inititiave if you wanted to play with the guys penis or do you wait for the cue from the guy? and would you be offended if he just took it out or even asked you to? i mean i've always thought yes, and have held back wanting to, but i've been thinking lately it's prob not that big of a deal to do so what are your opinions?