My girlfriend will tell me that she doesn't want to be with me anymore, but then doesn't really end it. It's weird because I love her a lot and it confuses me to no end as to whether or not I'm really with her. She broke up with me then after only two days she wanted to get back with me. It's frustrating because when I try to talk to her about how much it confuses me she gets upset and doesn't want to talk about it because she thinks I'm just trying to make her feel bad, when really I'm just telling her how I feel about it.
I don't really want to date anyone else because I've never invested so much into a person like this before, but it feels like she just doesn't care about the things I do for her.
She says that I'm sweet and will tell me that she wants to marry and have kids and then SWING the baseball bat of put downs comes flying around when my financial status comes up, which is often.
She likes to bring up that "There are prettier girls than her." and will ask me why I'm with her.
She says she just wants to be friends, but with the indecisiveness I have no idea what to expect.
I'm looking for a good job in the refineries right now and a turn around is coming up in December so I am expecting to get hired on, but I don't think it satisfies her comfort zone.
I told her that it feels like she doesn't want to be with me but she doesn't want me to be with anyone else also, she agreed that it was true, but again I get lost among the "I don't want to date anyone else" mentality.
In short, I want to be with her and she doesn't really know if she wants to be with me.
Girls please explain this to me from the outside!
I don't really want to date anyone else because I've never invested so much into a person like this before, but it feels like she just doesn't care about the things I do for her.
She says that I'm sweet and will tell me that she wants to marry and have kids and then SWING the baseball bat of put downs comes flying around when my financial status comes up, which is often.
She likes to bring up that "There are prettier girls than her." and will ask me why I'm with her.
She says she just wants to be friends, but with the indecisiveness I have no idea what to expect.
I'm looking for a good job in the refineries right now and a turn around is coming up in December so I am expecting to get hired on, but I don't think it satisfies her comfort zone.
I told her that it feels like she doesn't want to be with me but she doesn't want me to be with anyone else also, she agreed that it was true, but again I get lost among the "I don't want to date anyone else" mentality.
In short, I want to be with her and she doesn't really know if she wants to be with me.
Girls please explain this to me from the outside!