A guy friend is complaining to me, how should I respond?

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So my guy classmate is sick (with the cold), and like to complain to me about his life. I am not sure if he want to sympathize with him or give him solution or make him look on the bright side?
(I used to know a guy that complain ALOT, and the more I sympathize with, the worst he became until he turn into my stalker!)

Let just say I really do care for my friend right now but he sort have been pissing me off (maybe it has to do with me wanting to be JUST friend but he has been late to study group and doesn't reply back). I think he sort of like me, not sure anymore- I think he is complicated n I don't really want to complicate my life right now.
What should I do when he start complaining? I think I have been showing a lot of empathy with him and I am getting more complaining from him. It is not bad, it just I really don't know how to respond (I just been saying aww, ohhh, r you ok?, etc)
Good reply to his complaining that he get the message to stop complaining.
 
Just say along the lines of, "Be a man, you've went tougher times than this". Try to show sympathy just a little bit. If he complains all the time, then, leave him.
 
tell him that you don't really like it when he complains and that if he wants to complain go complain to someone else. then just like ignore his complaints.
 
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