Rubi Drescher
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I'll choose the best answer, HELP!? I've known this girl for only 5 months, but she became my good friend - right now I have basically no close friends beside her (I moved to the city I live now in September). She has at least 3 really close friends beside me, and this is the first time when she has asked ME for an advice, so your help is really important for me!
She (18) and her boyfriend (22) have been dating since May. I could hear from time to time about them arguing. Last weekend we had a dance at school and he was there. I wouldn't say he had a lot of fun and I know from my date, that he kept talking about another girl who was there, that he wishes he was with her etc.
Today in the evening (we live in germany, so its 12.35AM right now) we were talking on the phone, and she has told me that she just had a online chat with him. A few days ago he told her, that they can't meet this weekend, cause he gotta study. By accident he told her, that he's going to his cousins bday party. They always go to this kind of family meetings/parties together and he hasn't even asked her if she would like to go. She said, that he wasn't typing a lot, and when she said she's going to sleep, he was like 'k bye'.
She asked me what to do. She still cares and wants to be with him, but it's like he talks more often to his girl-friends than to her. How can she fix that? How can she talk with him about the party? She's not a kind of a person who will just ask straight "hey, why haven't you asked me to go with you".
I don't want to tell her about him being interested in other girls on our dance, but i need t tell her somehow, that he behaves like he's bored with this relationship...
please, help me!
She (18) and her boyfriend (22) have been dating since May. I could hear from time to time about them arguing. Last weekend we had a dance at school and he was there. I wouldn't say he had a lot of fun and I know from my date, that he kept talking about another girl who was there, that he wishes he was with her etc.
Today in the evening (we live in germany, so its 12.35AM right now) we were talking on the phone, and she has told me that she just had a online chat with him. A few days ago he told her, that they can't meet this weekend, cause he gotta study. By accident he told her, that he's going to his cousins bday party. They always go to this kind of family meetings/parties together and he hasn't even asked her if she would like to go. She said, that he wasn't typing a lot, and when she said she's going to sleep, he was like 'k bye'.
She asked me what to do. She still cares and wants to be with him, but it's like he talks more often to his girl-friends than to her. How can she fix that? How can she talk with him about the party? She's not a kind of a person who will just ask straight "hey, why haven't you asked me to go with you".
I don't want to tell her about him being interested in other girls on our dance, but i need t tell her somehow, that he behaves like he's bored with this relationship...
please, help me!