ginger_rocks89
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I got with my boyfriend and knew he had a history of cheating when he was 17/18 years and now he 25. When we met, we quickly got together, and we were both very fresh out of relationships. But we clicked straight away and I fell in love with him almost instantly. Our relationship has been perfect, then when we had been together about 8 months, i found out he had been flirting with a girl from work when we had been going out for about a month. However, i know nothing physically happened. And i have seen the conversations sent between them and he said he wanted to be with me, not her, and this only lasted a week. Then about a week later, another girl he works with claimed she gave him a bj in a hotel room when they were on a work course together, but he completely denies that, but i have heard its true from 2 people. But he did come clean about the first girl and was really sorry, but to this day he denies the second.
Since then he has moved stores at work and now theres a girl he keeps texting and she texts him. I have questioned him about it and he says nothings going on and she is really fat and ugly. but we was having a drink together and he got a text from her - he saw who it was from and hid it in his pocket. so later that day, i did summat stupid and text her off his phone when he wasnt looking asking what she was doing and my bf walked in a saw and so he text her saying it was to the wrong person and she replied and my bf read not knowing i was looking and it said 'you know you'd rather be here with me' - so i asked him as soon as i saw it and he reckons she was joking around saying hed rather be at work with her. and so we had a huge row and nearly split, but we sorted things out. then about a month later, the same girl approached my brother while out for a drink and started asking questions about me, and her best mate was with her, who also works with my bf, and she started saying how fit and gorgeous my bf is to my brother and that they always flirt at work and my bro went mad at her - but i wasnt even suspecting her, it was the girl he was always texting. So now im thinking is he just doing stuff with all his female staff??!! Then yesterday, my brother was talking to a friend of his, who happens to know the girl hes been texing and she said shes been seeing someone that she works with, but she didnt give and name, so now hes trying to find out the name of the guy she claims shes been seeing.
But I dont know what to do, I love him completely and I know hes was planning to propose to me and we are talking bout moving in together and everything. I get on brilliant with his family and they love me to bits. I have talked about the situation with his dad and his dad was really shocked to hear what he had been doing, his dad knew about his past, but thought he would never do something like that to me, as he seems completely besotted with me. I mean my bf even brought me a puppy, so I cant see why he would buy a puppy and then go off cheating, with a chance I would find out and dump him.
What should I do? Before I got with him I suffered with depression and he got me out of it, and im worried, that if i do find out hes been seeing this girl from work, that I will have to dump him and the depression will return.
Please help me, I really dont wanna loose him.
Since then he has moved stores at work and now theres a girl he keeps texting and she texts him. I have questioned him about it and he says nothings going on and she is really fat and ugly. but we was having a drink together and he got a text from her - he saw who it was from and hid it in his pocket. so later that day, i did summat stupid and text her off his phone when he wasnt looking asking what she was doing and my bf walked in a saw and so he text her saying it was to the wrong person and she replied and my bf read not knowing i was looking and it said 'you know you'd rather be here with me' - so i asked him as soon as i saw it and he reckons she was joking around saying hed rather be at work with her. and so we had a huge row and nearly split, but we sorted things out. then about a month later, the same girl approached my brother while out for a drink and started asking questions about me, and her best mate was with her, who also works with my bf, and she started saying how fit and gorgeous my bf is to my brother and that they always flirt at work and my bro went mad at her - but i wasnt even suspecting her, it was the girl he was always texting. So now im thinking is he just doing stuff with all his female staff??!! Then yesterday, my brother was talking to a friend of his, who happens to know the girl hes been texing and she said shes been seeing someone that she works with, but she didnt give and name, so now hes trying to find out the name of the guy she claims shes been seeing.
But I dont know what to do, I love him completely and I know hes was planning to propose to me and we are talking bout moving in together and everything. I get on brilliant with his family and they love me to bits. I have talked about the situation with his dad and his dad was really shocked to hear what he had been doing, his dad knew about his past, but thought he would never do something like that to me, as he seems completely besotted with me. I mean my bf even brought me a puppy, so I cant see why he would buy a puppy and then go off cheating, with a chance I would find out and dump him.
What should I do? Before I got with him I suffered with depression and he got me out of it, and im worried, that if i do find out hes been seeing this girl from work, that I will have to dump him and the depression will return.
Please help me, I really dont wanna loose him.