Marsha Desannini
New member
Here is the story (the one my 8 year old son and 16 year old step son told me) my 8 year old was watching an adult show. it was talking about sex. He didn't know what sex meant, so he searched "define:sex" he then saw it was an activity. he then searched how to have sex. Then my son and his girlfriend came home. My 8 year old ran down, and asked my step son to come upstairs because he had a problem. He said to him that he wanted to have sex, but has no one to do it with. My step son always wants to help, but with bad things. So, he got his girlfriend to have blind folded sex, but instead, he let my 8 year old son have sex with her. My 16 year old step son would whisper in my 8 year old son's ear what to do. He told me he had an "enjoyable time." But that's not all. Then he brought his "girlfriend" home. He asked her out at school, then invited her over. He told her to take off her clothes, and he would too. Then he looked up a video on sex from help of my 16 year old step son. He did what the man in the video did. The little girl asked what he was doing, and he said sex. she asked if she would do it too. Then she had some fun with his penis. My 16 year old step son walked in on them, and then the little girl asked "may i sex you?" my older son said no. then grabbed my 8 year old, and asked him why he was doing this. He said because you do it, and you let me do it before. Then he told them to get dressed, and the little girl had to go. Then, i while i was in my room, i could hear noises in his bedroom (it's above mine) so i go to check it out. i saw him and his girlfriend getting dressed, but his hands were on her breasts (or the area where she should have them). i was outraged. i had a talk with them, then i noticed the computer, and i saw the video. He explained everything, and told me about what my 16 year old step son did. i explained everything to both of them. they are both grounded until summer. (i took away tv, internet, and i disabled internet on my 16 year old step son's phone. no one can come over the house.) i told my husband all of this, but i am not telling my ex-husband, or his girlfriend. How can i make sure this won't happen again if i am away during the day until 5 p.m.? was this normal behavior at all? please help
this is not a joke.
this is not a joke.