5 year relashionship, living with him for most of it. What should I do, I think I...

[angieJV]

...have to end it?!? I'm really sad, I've been arguing with my bf for a year now about our relationship. He wont change for the better, ie he has no ambition cause hes not happy in his situation. Hes always unhappy now and he has really really bad social anxiety and wont get help for it because that would mean he would have to talk and be near someone he doesn't know. I have health issues that make me feel like crap a lot so I feel like crap a lot lol and don't really want to do much because I don't feel good. we have kind of grown apart, and he wont try to get better and have any ambition. I don't know what to do because we keep going in circles with this argument, arguing for the past year about what we are going to do. It's very hard because we live together, been for the last 4 years. Its just becoming unbearable we both love each other but he wants to do his thing but wants to still live with me and I want to do my thing but I want to still live with him. Its just not working but we both love each other SO much, I just don't know what to do. I just wish he would change for the better, but after a year of the same argument and no change I don't think its going to happen, like I said Im at my wits end, god I just wish he would change, I don't know what I should do , its going to be SO hard to watch him and help him move out, and drive him to the place hes going to stay?! we both still love each other but its not working, it hurts SO bad!!!