history of promiscuity of men.? 5-6 years ago around 2004 NPR was giving a book review something around the history of promiscuity of men. For example the narrator uses examples quoting ancient Chinese proverb, "Men are like teapot you can pour in may cups" and "One can spit outside from his house and not the other way". Something around these lines; I am eager to find the name of this book.