32 weeks pregnant and wants sex!!?

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I'm 32 weeks pregnant. My husband and i haven't had sex this hole month. I know its been about 4 weeks or longer since we had sex. I don't want to pressure him because i know guys get weird knowing there is a baby up there..lol but i really want to have sex. What should i do? He also never holds me in bed. I think he is turned off with my pregnancy. But we wanted it all the time when i wasn't pregnant? ugh!
*HE wanted it all the time before i got pregnant
 
I agree, take charge girl. Choose a position that is most comfortable for you and just entice him.

You are 32 weeks pregnant...just something to think about. Intercourse to climax may induce labor at this stage in time (that is ejaculate). I am 26 weeks and we are being very careful right now as well. You may want to ask your OB about this if you are concerned.

Have fun and good luck!!!
 
Sometimes I think the father experiences a lot of stress that may make him seem as though he doesn't want to be as physically close (not just for sex, but also just touching and cuddling). He may feel bad that you are experiencing discomfort and he is unable to do anything to help. My husband sometimes doesn't cuddle up to me in bed as much as he used to because he is concerned that it will make me more uncomfortable. I think the belly usually only causes problems because of the logisics of getting around it, not because the guy is actually turned off by it.
 
Maybe you should get him one of those men pregnancy books that tell the man that there is NO harm in having sex at all during the pregnancy. My boyfriend was so nervous to have sex in my pregnancy, but after he read that it really doesnt harm the baby at all, we had sex up until the day before i delivered.
 
my husband thought that every time we would have sex while i was pregnant that he would be bonking the baby in the head. ha ha! i made him come with me to the doctor and ask so he could hear it straight from the horses mouth that sex is completely healthy during pregnancy.
tell your husband how you feel.
-Mom may be concerned that her body is repulsive to her partner, or that her figure may never return.
-To the contrary, most men are actually aroused by their wife's blossoming figure. Communication is essential for a healthy sex life, at all points of life.
 
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