than that. what should i do? I have a very high sex drive and I need it at least 8 times a day and she can't handle it I'm thinking I may need to break up with her and find some one else who can give it to me more frequently. I love her to death but I love having sex at the same time. I'm really confused I have even offered her clothes and money for more sex but she just won't do it ! Any ideas or opinions ?