16, 17, almost a year... Sex?

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Now, im 16 yrs old... me and my bf are virgins right now but we wanna have sex..

So before you say anything:: im moving. to another state in august, until I can move back or something when i finish high school..in 2011..

we have BEEN talking about doing this way before i knew i had to leave.. now its summer, we're both horny.. he has a ride and everything in order to get this done... but i dont wanna be dumb and do this and have to leave but (God forbid) something happens while im away or even worse: i'll meet someone new..
but the thing is, i really feel it for this dude and i love him so much..and he feels the same.
but at the same time: i dont want to make an ass of myself and do this and something happens when i leave.. i mean, even if i stay here, things can happen; but i really feel like hes different and i do Know that he wont do anything to hurt me..
but then again: hes a boy.. not like boys can't be trusted but, i just cant stand for another heartbreak...

so i asked my bestie for advice, she says its not wise.. i know that, but still:: i wanna do this. but im still confused mann..

help?
 
OKAII YEAH IF YOU LOVE HIM AND I MEAN LOVE THEN GO FOR IT! IF BOTH OF YOU REALLY FEEL READY THEN DO IT IGNORE ALL THE PEOPLE SAYIN NO IF YOU ARE READY THEN DO IT!
 
If you're this messed up about it.. don't. Even if you were set on it - don't. This isn't a stable, loving relationship and I can see far more regrets coming from this than non-regrets.
 
Stop worrying about all these and focus your energy on studies. It will help you in future to get admission in a good college. And then a good job.
 
Well the best answer I can give u would be for u to do it cuz u feel like ur actually ready not bcuz ur afraid of wat might happen. And also make sure that he is absolutely ready too.
 
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