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control??? dont wanna ask mine...? long story somewhat short...
boyfriend of two years (im 15, he's 16)
he's REALLY addicted to video games & it's kind of taking a toll on our relationship.
about two weeks ago, we were getting along & everything was fine until, of course, i mentioned something about having another guy come here (ONLY to piss him off) and it did...
im also really annoying (sometimes i would call him 30+ until he picks up his phone, & i also call him in school, (to piss him off) when he doesn't text back over a period of two minutes.
one time while he was sleeping, he woke up & had 98 missed calls from me. :/ (this was on new years eve)
when we started fighting which was a week & a half ago, he ignored me for a week and a half
he wouldnt call me or answer any of my calls (we only texted & in those texts he said that "he loves me, but sometimes i just act dumb (calling in school thing)
so i decided to play the game right back..i didn't call or text him like a maniac (as i usually do) for four days.
on sunday, he called me twice at almost 3 in the morning. i didn't pick up cause i was sleeping nor did i call back the next day. last night at 1 in the morning he called, but i was also sleeping. (he called three times) then before school, (today) he called me & said "i was trying to get ahold of you for a couple days now, & he was wondering why i didn't call back...he asked if i was still mad at him..not sure why? but anyway...then during school today he sent me a text saying that he wants to spend time with me (which he never does cause he has work on weekends) and he also sent a text saying "i love you and im sorry for annoying you, and i want to make this work,noone can replace you, i love you."
He also wanted to talk that night. But OF COURSE, i was blown off AGAIN cause he just HAD to play video games. So I got mad, & we started fighting AGAIN.
We barely talked since then (that was Tuesday).
Well yesterday he actually paused his video games and talked to me for like 20 minutes. He told me that he always works on weekends, and when he doesnt, he has school, and after school he just likes to go him and relax and stuff. (he said thats why he doesnt see me often) and he told me that he wished i was allowed at his house. I'm going to convince my parents, but what i really need to know is, does he care about me? He is playing with my head so muchhhh! One day he's into me, then the next it's about his video games. (my dad called him today cause he's gonna make all this little kid stuff he's doing stop)
help me figure out what to do
does he care?
and please, no rude comments. i know me and him both have issues we need to work on, but how can we fix them? and don't say break up, i wont. i love him too much.
and should i just not talk to him for awhile, like longer than four days...
to let him think about what he truly wants?
and if so, HOW LONG SHOULD "AWHILE" BE?
boyfriend of two years (im 15, he's 16)
he's REALLY addicted to video games & it's kind of taking a toll on our relationship.
about two weeks ago, we were getting along & everything was fine until, of course, i mentioned something about having another guy come here (ONLY to piss him off) and it did...
im also really annoying (sometimes i would call him 30+ until he picks up his phone, & i also call him in school, (to piss him off) when he doesn't text back over a period of two minutes.
one time while he was sleeping, he woke up & had 98 missed calls from me. :/ (this was on new years eve)
when we started fighting which was a week & a half ago, he ignored me for a week and a half
he wouldnt call me or answer any of my calls (we only texted & in those texts he said that "he loves me, but sometimes i just act dumb (calling in school thing)
so i decided to play the game right back..i didn't call or text him like a maniac (as i usually do
) for four days.on sunday, he called me twice at almost 3 in the morning. i didn't pick up cause i was sleeping nor did i call back the next day. last night at 1 in the morning he called, but i was also sleeping. (he called three times) then before school, (today) he called me & said "i was trying to get ahold of you for a couple days now, & he was wondering why i didn't call back...he asked if i was still mad at him..not sure why? but anyway...then during school today he sent me a text saying that he wants to spend time with me (which he never does cause he has work on weekends) and he also sent a text saying "i love you and im sorry for annoying you, and i want to make this work,noone can replace you, i love you."
He also wanted to talk that night. But OF COURSE, i was blown off AGAIN cause he just HAD to play video games. So I got mad, & we started fighting AGAIN.
We barely talked since then (that was Tuesday).
Well yesterday he actually paused his video games and talked to me for like 20 minutes. He told me that he always works on weekends, and when he doesnt, he has school, and after school he just likes to go him and relax and stuff. (he said thats why he doesnt see me often) and he told me that he wished i was allowed at his house. I'm going to convince my parents, but what i really need to know is, does he care about me? He is playing with my head so muchhhh! One day he's into me, then the next it's about his video games. (my dad called him today cause he's gonna make all this little kid stuff he's doing stop)
help me figure out what to do
does he care?
and please, no rude comments. i know me and him both have issues we need to work on, but how can we fix them? and don't say break up, i wont. i love him too much.
and should i just not talk to him for awhile, like longer than four days...
to let him think about what he truly wants?
and if so, HOW LONG SHOULD "AWHILE" BE?