We don't want jerks, nor do we settle for jerks. My husband is a nice, good man and I'm happy I have him. I'm not complaining and neither are the women I know. Find a better group of women to be around.
I am a wife and I don't complain actually. Neither do many of the women I know who are married. I of course have seen some do what you are talking about.
Women could list some generalizations about husbands as well.
How does that help really?