Tell her but say dont flip out on me i just want to tell you how i feel im not going to ask you to stop or anything.Or maybe she wants you to stop her every girl is different.
tell him directly how you feel be open and honest and tell him that if he is joking it hurts and if he dosnt stop he will lose you.Or do the same thing to him.Or as him if he has a split personality then tell him how you feel
