yahoo messenger allows anyone from your contact list to see that you are available and sent you a 'chat' message. i would like to allow friends and family from my contact list to chat. but, i also have business contacts and 'other' contacts too. i do not want them to see my chat availability...
most sites i have found show only the patterns they have for sale. is there a site that is a 'repository' for every pattern ever posted on that site. sort of an historical database of patterns.