Dont lose sight my friend, she an artist? Yes, but a women first, and if you have a nice ring or significant piece of jeweler made custom for her then you score two fold.
No my spouse does not know I have this yahoo account I use only for q & a but that's so I can talk about things openly with out feeling I am being judged in some way negative by the one person in this world I love as much as my kids. My amazing wife :-)