Hey ya know I hear touch lamps attract ghosts. For real, the slightest charge the ghost can make, causes the lamp to go on and off. Might be a worth while project.
Sex is a big deal for some guys. Other not really. For me not so much. If you are friends with the girl he might feel even more comfortable asking for it. When you stop, he might or might not get mad. I don't know him to say. That's why relationships shouldn't be built on sex, it will save a lot...