How bout Cornell or Syracuse if your looking to play in New York State. I am from Connecticut and UCONN has a really good football program now as well.
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I dont think so...I think soccer would get in the way of basketball practice. Lacross practice starts end of February/early march. Plus you will be having at least 4 classes to take so you would be pretty busy school wise as well.
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