I think you need to chill out on this one. Do you expect him to carry a notebook around with him all day and write down every little thing he does so that he can report it back to you? Typically you only hear about the most exciting/interesting thing that happens in a day, not a random quick...
She did the exact same thing that you did except she substituted a bag for a person.
Maybe the proper etiquette would be to wait until you have ordered to get a table, that is what I would do.