what kind of pain exactly? you said you were seeing a counselor, is it emotional pain? If it is not emotional but rather physical, then it could be a size issue. Penises come in many sizes, and so do vaginas. Perhaps you should have a gynecologist examine you if it is physical. I would like to...
something legal, a supplement or medicine or something. Not an "aphrodisiac" like chocolate or oysters, or some other wives tales. Something that actually increases the chemicals in the body that WANT sex. Something that isn't food or alcohol,...something small