Why is it that whenever I see a Christian arguing with a Unitarian Universalist(which is what I am), the Christian always uses arguments based in Christian doctrine or dogma, and tries to debunk our legitimacy through that? Is it because we use the term "Church" even though we do not claim to be...
Its actually a little known situation- most people's first times are actually their second or third attempts ^^
Thats very normal, it'll take a while to get used to it.
Meanwhile, practice makes perfect.