I believe you only have to pay a fee to get the photo re-done and the card re-issued.
Keep in mind, 99% of people's drivers license photographs look like crap. Do not expect it to turn out much better than it is currently.
I think it's best to be a combination of the two. LOOK tough, but be sweet. Do not take crap, but accept the shortcomings of others.
That sort of thing.
Any self-respecting girl would not be interested in an asshole for long. And most girls may get bored by someone who's simply a nice guy.
To whom it may concern [or the person's name, if you know it. Use Mr/Ms/Mrs + the last name, if you are not on a first-name basis],
[You should mention something about previous business with whomever you are writing to, to establish warmness. The person reading your letter will be much more...
You're probably smart enough to realize that the sexual interactions you're getting are on a purely physical basis. It might seem cool to some people to get a lot of ass every night, but it's very depressing when it's JUST ass, and no real human interaction. I'd recommend actually dating...