Don't marry him until you know all the facts and root causes. Go to couples counseling. Make sure you know the who what where why when how and how come of this behavior before making a committment to be with him forever.
We are looking for an outdoor area to hold the wedding, but a lot of places only offer very man made looking areas. Does anyone know of a nice forest clearing or outdoor garden that would allow space for a smaller scale wedding in the Connecticut area?