If you know what base he's at then I'd advise you to contact the IG office at that location. Advise them of your plight and they will assist you in rectifying the situation. If you do not know what base he's at then I'd advise you to get sneaky and find out ie set up a fake myspace/facebook...
There's a reason that houses by the airports, both civilian and military, are very cheap to buy or rent hon. No, there is nothing you can do about it....other than move.