I totally understand what you mean. It sucks that they are complaining to you since they know you've been trying so hard!
I just got another BFN and I'm SO depressed!
That being said, I know SO many women who ttc for so long and swore they would enjoy their pregnancy once they finally got it...
First of all, they couldn't logistically "do" themselves. If you know anything about anatomy, you would know this. Second, NO if the sperm got inside they would not get preg.
I'm in a similar situation. You should get an accurate test result by now, use your first morning's urine, it contains the most Hcg.
Good luck! My period is late too, but I'm irregular so I'm confused as to when to test. I'm on cd 44, but I got a neg test on cd 41.
I had this happen to me last month. I was super stressed and it made my period late. Waiting to know if I was preg was torture!
Anyway...when did you ovulate? If it's been over 14 days since ovulation, your hpt should be accurate. If not, wait until it has been 14+ days and test again.
Just...