humans are the most infertile species on the planet, with only a health couple succeeding at 20-25% per cycle. But good news, you should get pregnant within 6 months, or may be a bit longer at a year. Count your blessings tho if you are both healthy, Imagine the odds for a couple that may have...
it will come down enough that you can grab it sooner or later, just dont wait for a long time, your vagina isn't all that big, so you will be able to find it. try sitting down on the toilet to do this,