Sorry - you need to contact an attorney - This is not something that should be decided or advised to you here, it is too important and too complicated.
Send an e-mail or a letter to the attorney who represented you in your divorce for starters. They can give you some initial feedback of what...
sheloves... is on the money.
Our ridiculous divorce rate has nothing to do with soap operas, they have been on the air with the same story lines for 30+ years. Night-time television doesn't send any better messages either.
No one should be using television as an example of how to live or what...