Some people don't have a thick skin.
Maybe it's not WHAT you are saying, it's HOW you are saying it.
I've been on both sides of the weight continuum, but when I was at my heaviest and someone made an exercise or weight joke- yeah, I was a bit offended- but I also took that as motivation. I...
I'd tell her to take the notice, set it on fire, and pound the ashes straight up his a.ss....he raped her daughter and the bastard is in jail where he belongs. He cannot force her to move out of a home that was owned before the marriage...in fact I wouldn't do a damn thing he told me to.