They refused to compromise or seek therapy; and failed to acknowledge sexual incompatibility.
So pretty much you like purple and he/she hates purple and is very 'green' or assumes green is the default colour, if you know what I mean.
Yes he is a "Blue Dog" (Democrat with strong Republican tendencies)
But, does anyone else find him attractive and kinda just materialized concepts of his mouth and lips being planted on a vagina when he is on his contradicting tangents of pro-social security cuts and uplifting of the working...