Absolutely yes. It's called 'fishing for compliments'. Don't get sucked into that.
When a girl truly feels bad about herself, and genuinely needs a bit of encouragement, she will confide her feelings. Use your discretion and you will be able to spot the difference.
Absolutely yes.
My husband often complains 'you only want it at night', 'we only did it 3 times this week' blah blah blah. Huge turn off. He also complains that 'it seems like a job to you'. Well of course it feels like a job to me, because of the way he carries on.
give her a chance to...