Well, the porn thing was a good idea. It's a safe and simple way to see what your into and attracted to romantically.
I would say to visit different types of bars and just hang out. Bring a friend or two for some support and see what happens. But you're under age and that doesn't work.
I have...
My bf is driving me nuts with his ex.
We started dating in Feb, left in March to study abroad til June. In April, his ex got dumped and he went and hung out with her (right after he said "her constant posting on my Facebook wall makes me wanna scream...she feels the need to talk to me" and...