Psalm 37:4
Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart.
It isn't wrong to have goals, plans etc...
But you should pray for his will not yours. We may not get exactly why we want, but God knows better then we what we actually need.
This is a construction of the modern age. What some sects call 'speaking in tongues' is just them being moronic.
According to the scriptures, speaking in tongues... is only one of two things:
1. Someone speaks their native language, and everyone assembled hears him in their own native...