Completely normal. My husband and I would have split up long ago if I had to watch all his crappy television programs!!!
Even if they are watching the same thing. I love my Husband to death but I still need some alone time everyonce in a while.
1. If you have no lawyer you should definitely have been in court...some one needs to appear on your behalf.
2. In cases like these you should have a lawyer. If you have no money you can get a legal aid lawyer.
3. A Judge will not normally hear from you except in a court proceeding. Speaking...