Men my own age are normal leave men alone, actually they dont even bother. I ignore them they ignore me. But older men, most whom are white, I mean they are like my father's age and its Pakistani culture to be respectful to older people so I am and then they think its some signal to chat with me...
He plays a piano. Playing an instrument doesnt mean that much with pop/R&b music, its about musical arrangement. MJ wrote and arranged most of his songs.